blazertaz13 wrote:Okay, I have not been able to figure this one out.
A player keeps saying that I have been too hard on him and that we should talk. I go to give him a call, but I can't figure out how to actually get anything productive out it. I can suspend him, hint at being better, but nothing to talk about his actual concern. What am I missing?
You're not missing anything. There are no ways to realistically deal with this problem in DDSCB. You can either just pick the action you think is most appropriate at the time or ignore it. Be aware though, watch what happens with his "coach relationship" if you repeatedly ignore him, it MAY go downhill (it does for some players and doesn't for others) and if it goes too far down, he may eventually transfer (of course, by then you may want him to transfer so you don't have to continue listening to his whining...lol).
I'm not sure if praising him occasionally during timeouts in a game may help reduce his complaints and/or improve a player's "coach relationship"...sort of doubt it, but I have no idea if Gary programmed praise to extend beyond the immediate game situation.
Oh! And some (hard-ass Wayne comes to mind

) just cut the sniveling player.