Mom called today and when she put Pop on the phone, I knew something was wrong since Pop doesn’t like to talk on the phone.
He was a bit hesitant at first but finally said, “Son, we have a big problem. Sean’s drinking isn’t any better. But that’s not the big problem. The group he hangs out with is now somehow involved in drugs. I don’t think Sean is dealing, but your Mother and I am afraid he will go back to using drugs or will begin dealing drugs. So he’s either going to get all messed up on drugs or will eventually have a run in with the law. We can’t do anything with him. We just got to get him out of this area and away from the people he’s spending all his time with these days. Most of the other kids are too near Philly or have their hands full with their own families. Only Danny and you are far away, but Danny’s involved in music and travelling so couldn’t handle Sean plus too many in the music industry are doing drugs and liquor themselves so Sean would just get more involved. I know it’s a big imposition, but your Mother and I want you to consider taking Sean in for a while.”
I nearly choked as I struggled to make a reply. Finally I got out, “But Pop, how are you going to convince Sean to come to Bakersfield? He’s never going to do it. And how am I supposed to keep track of him? I’m living by myself and the team’s on the road at least once a week plus I seem to spend all my time at the college reviewing films, coaching practices, and trying to figure out a way to get this team winning.”
Pop was silent for a bit and I thought maybe he had hung up, but he eventually said, “Your mother has been giving that some thought and I think we’ve come up with a way to handle both of your questions. But no need to go into that now. What I need to know is if we can count on you to help the family out on this one?”
My stomach was tied up in a knot, but I was left with little to say but, “Pop, when you put it that way, how can I say anything but yes? When is this going to happen? How much time do I have to plan things out?”
Pop’s reply was, “Thanks, son. I’m not exactly sure about that. As I said, we have to get things set up on how we get Sean to agree to come to California and how we give you some assistance in dealing with him. As I said, I think your mother’s ideas on this are sound, but she and I need to talk more about it. It’s just that we couldn’t really do that until we were sure you’d step up to the plate. We’ll get back to you soon.”
With that, he was done talking on the phone. Mom came back on the phone and sounded like she had been crying while Pop and I had been talking. But she said, “Perry, your father and I are sorry to burden you with this but are really happy you’re willing to help.” She then moved on to her mothering to find out how I was doing and trying to find out about any possible new daughter-in-law.
When she hung up, I was left to think about what I had just agreed to do. How the hell was I going to pull this off?